A Place to Dream Up Your Happiest Life
Hi! I’m Vic.
When I was younger, there were spaces on the internet that had this lovely, positive, innocent vibe. Places like XOvain and (some parts of) Tumblr. You just clicked around and learned cute fun things and saved pretty, largely meaningless photos. You could dream up who you were gonna be one day and take quizzes to see if you should get bangs or not.
I want this space to capture the happiness and nostalgia of the slow bored days of childhood, where possibilities were endless and anything was worth trying if it sounded fun. But for adults who are surfing the reality of life, its ups and its downs. Instead of eyeshadow maps, there will be easy mindfulness practices, books and resource recommendations for better love and happiness, and rituals I’ve tried and tested that help me slow down and enjoy my days with gratitude and romance.
Also pretty, largely meaningless photos. Love you!
For updates on new posts and other fun things, you can sign up for my Substack newsletter and Pinterest! I am a real girl with things to do like grocery shop and clean my floors so I will only email you like 3 times a month max, promise.
Date Night Ideas That You Haven't Tried Yet
I think there’s this really damaging concept that pervades dating and relating that love simply doesn’t last. I hate that. I don’t have a lot of years under my belt but I don’t care what anyone says or thinks. I will do whatever is in my power to reject that belief. To instead believe that love has no limits, can always be reborn, and can transform even the darkest of nights in our lives. I just don’t see the point in thinking otherwise.
To that end, with a little creativity and an open mind, date night is so magical. It can ignite that elation of a first kiss, the intensity of new love. I hope these ideas refresh and restore your date night ritual and remind you that love is too important to take for granted.