Now unless a pursuit is good for me or fun, I do not pursue it. And I try to bring fun to what is good for me and vice versa. Of course, the activities we have immediate access to that both improve ourselves and are not begrudging can seem…limited. Especially in the age of excess and overstimulation. So I wrote this post to be an easy list to reference when you need inspiration for loving self care that is not so, so boring and annoying.

Here are some of my favorite cozy, easy, health and wellness tips that won't cost you too much (if any) money and you may very well enjoy. It's not a comprehensive list but it's a good place to start.

Is hope such a dirty thing? Is it embarrassing to believe your life could get better? I don’t think so. Change is vulnerable. Admitting we want something we don’t have is scary. It brings up a lot of insecurity and pain of the past. Being brave and trying for the life you want anyway is deserving of reward in my opinion. So buy yourself a self help book AND a cookie. 

Which is what I do! Whenever I am facing a new challenge, I download a self help audiobook that someone recommends on the topic, be it an article like this or someone I know who is knowledgeable on the subject. I go for slow walks and just listen. I don’t try to solve anything or rush through. I just walk and listen and trust that there is always some solution to every quandary. No reading even required. And that cookie thing, don’t forget. 

I think there’s this really damaging concept that pervades dating and relating that love simply doesn’t last. I hate that. I don’t have a lot of years under my belt but I don’t care what anyone says or thinks. I will do whatever is in my power to reject that belief. To instead believe that love has no limits, can always be reborn, and can transform even the darkest of nights in our lives. I just don’t see the point in thinking otherwise. 

To that end, with a little creativity and an open mind, date night is so magical. It can ignite that elation of a first kiss, the intensity of new love. I hope these ideas refresh and restore your date night ritual and remind you that love is too important to take for granted.